Taking your self into question

I hate how your told that you are good at something, yet you look at something u did and you think u did horrible so then you take into question the comments of your close friends and love ones, and you think are they just saying that? Because I think I'm alright, I hear im good, I listen and look at what I do, I then think I'm horrible so then I'm never sure of who I am in what I'm being told I'm good at.

I think we all like to think that what we love to do, we are good at. But sometimes we love to do something and we're the worst ever at it. Yet sometimes we love what we do, and we are horrible at it yet people have to take us in and we are told we are good even though we aren't. So what are we to believe? Are we actually good at what we are doing but are to self-concious? Or is it that we are actually bad and people say we are good so we'll keep practicing in hope that we will soon get better?

I like to believe that I'm good at what I love to do. There is some stuff I can admit I'm not good at even though I love it. Driving a stick, playing guitar, playing guitar hero, playing hockey, cooking, making cakes, etc.

Yet the stuff I cherish the most and that has made me feel good about myself in the past comes into question and then my self-esteem lowers and that's how it is for everyone. So how do we fix this? If you are a perfectionist film or audio doesn't do anything because you'll find the smallest detail and nail yourself on it. Yet we can't face an actual judge because the anxiety is to much to bare, yet we can't do that as our major because if we really aren't good at it we get screwed.

So what am I suppose to do? What are we suppose to do?